problème avec exim4

[samlef]

Bonjour à toutes et à tous,

Je tente désespérément d'installer un serveur linux à la maison.
Tous se passe plutôt bien mis à part le système de mail.

Je tente d'envoyer des mails via exim4, la commande passe mais me fait une entrée dans les logs et n'envoi evidemment aucun message!

je suis sur une debian lenny derriere un parefeu.

J'ai été regardé sur google, sans rien trouver et en faisant d'ailleurs quelques petites modifs qui ont rien changé si pas empiré la chose

Merci de votre aide.

Et voici mes logs

2010-02-09 11:10:42 exim 4.69 daemon started: pid=6323, -q30m, listening for SMTP on [127.0.0.1]:25
2010-02-09 11:10:42 Start queue run: pid=6324
2010-02-09 11:10:42 1NebEd-0001Jh-4C Spool file is locked (another process is handling this message)
2010-02-09 11:10:42 1NebXt-0001Kv-8M == email@email.be R=dnslookup T=remote_smtp defer (-53): retry time not reached for any host
2010-02-09 11:10:42 1NemSS-0001FL-FI Spool file is locked (another process is handling this message)
2010-02-09 11:10:42 1NemuQ-0001UD-Iu Spool file is locked (another process is handling this message)
2010-02-09 11:10:57 1NemuQ-0001UD-Iu alt2.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.210.21] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:10:57 1NemuQ-0001UD-Iu == email@gmail.com R=dnslookup T=remote_smtp defer (110): Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:12:20 1NemSS-0001FL-FI alt1.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.223.101] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:12:59 1NeZsI-00025U-Rz alt2.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.210.13] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:12:59 1NeZsI-00025U-Rz == email@gmail.com R=dnslookup T=remote_smtp defer (110): Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:13:11 1NebxM-0001qp-C5 alt1.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.223.101] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:13:19 1NemtD-0001Kl-LY alt1.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.223.101] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:13:37 1NebEd-0001Jh-4C alt1.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.223.101] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:13:51 1NeZyR-0002Ae-Bs alt1.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.223.101] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:15:29 1NemSS-0001FL-FI alt2.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.210.102] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:15:29 1NemSS-0001FL-FI == email@gmail.com R=dnslookup T=remote_smtp defer (110): Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:15:29 1NebxM-0001qp-C5 Spool file is locked (another process is handling this message)
2010-02-09 11:15:29 1NeZyR-0002Ae-Bs Spool file is locked (another process is handling this message)
2010-02-09 11:16:08 1NeblL-0001ez-0u alt1.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.223.101] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:16:08 1NeblL-0001ez-0u == email@gmail.com R=dnslookup T=remote_smtp defer (110): Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:16:20 1NebxM-0001qp-C5 alt2.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.210.102] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:16:20 1NebxM-0001qp-C5 == email@gmail.com R=dnslookup T=remote_smtp defer (110): Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:16:20 1NeZyR-0002Ae-Bs Spool file is locked (another process is handling this message)
2010-02-09 11:16:20 1NemtD-0001Kl-LY Spool file is locked (another process is handling this message)
2010-02-09 11:16:28 1NemtD-0001Kl-LY alt2.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.210.102] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:16:28 1NemtD-0001Kl-LY == email@gmail.com R=dnslookup T=remote_smtp defer (110): Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:16:28 1NeblL-0001ez-0u Spool file is locked (another process is handling this message)
2010-02-09 11:16:28 1NeZuC-00025f-6g Spool file is locked (another process is handling this message)
2010-02-09 11:16:28 1NeZsI-00025U-Rz Spool file is locked (another process is handling this message)
2010-02-09 11:16:28 1NeZyR-0002Ae-Bs Spool file is locked (another process is handling this message)
2010-02-09 11:16:46 1NebEd-0001Jh-4C alt2.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.210.102] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:16:46 1NebEd-0001Jh-4C == email@email.com R=dnslookup T=remote_smtp defer (110): Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:16:46 1NebXt-0001Kv-8M == email@email.be R=dnslookup T=remote_smtp defer (-53): retry time not reached for any host
2010-02-09 11:16:46 1NemSS-0001FL-FI Spool file is locked (another process is handling this message)
2010-02-09 11:17:00 1NeZyR-0002Ae-Bs alt2.gmail-smtp-in.l.google.com [209.85.210.102] Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:17:00 1NeZyR-0002Ae-Bs == email@gmail.com R=dnslookup T=remote_smtp defer (110): Connection timed out
2010-02-09 11:17:00 1NemtD-0001Kl-LY == test@email.be R=dnslookup T=remote_smtp defer (-53): retry time not reached for any host
2010-02-09 11:17:55 1NenAJ-0001el-3r <= root@email.be U=root P=local S=349